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The Tuesday Women+ Thread Accepts Compliments

Some guidelines to help this space be a positive experience for everyone:

As always with the Avocado, don’t feel compelled to share beyond your comfort level. 

Anyone who identifies as female, or who was socialized female/AFAB/otherwise has firsthand experience with the issues being discussed, is welcome to post. If you identify as cis-male, we ask that you please set your participation to “lurk” mode, unless otherwise explicitly invited to participate further (i.e. if we did an AMA kind of thread). I’m sure there’s plenty to be gleaned just by reading! (New Guideline, please take note) This includes upvotes, we ask cis-men to keep their upvotes to commenters who voluntarily add “+up” to their comments and only those comments.

Please do your best to be mindful of others’ experiences when commenting or posing questions for the group. The female identity is Legion and contains multitudes, and not everyone who has experience with being treated as female by society identifies as female. Furthermore, racial and ethnic identities, sexual orientation, and many other factors can color how one experiences their gender identity on a day-to-day basis.



Since it appears to be hard for a great many people who were socialised as women+ to just accept compliments and move on: let’s practice!

Prompt: Is there something about yourself and/or what you’re doing that you would like to be complimented on? If so, let us know! It could be current/temporary/situational awesomeness, or just out of effing principle. This is a stressful time of the year for many of us. Let’s counter it by having a curated lovefest, showering each other with praise – just because we can.