Some guidelines to help this space be a positive experience for everyone:
As always with the Avocado, don’t feel compelled to share beyond your comfort level.
Anyone who identifies as female, or who was socialized female/AFAB/otherwise has firsthand experience with the issues being discussed, is welcome to post. If you identify as cis-male, we ask that you please set your participation to “lurk” mode, unless otherwise explicitly invited to participate further (i.e. if we did an AMA kind of thread). I’m sure there’s plenty to be gleaned just by reading! (New Guideline, please take note) This includes upvotes, we ask cis-men to keep their upvotes to commenters who voluntarily add “+up” to their comments and only those comments.
Please do your best to be mindful of others’ experiences when commenting or posing questions for the group. The female identity is Legion and contains multitudes, and not everyone who has experience with being treated as female by society identifies as female. Furthermore, racial and ethnic identities, sexual orientation, and many other factors can color how one experiences their gender identity on a day-to-day basis.
I’m sorry – I thought I had this one scheduled.
This was the 4th image that came up when I typed in “women” in the stock photo thingy. I like it.
Optional prompt – Hair. I have been noticing a lot of Black women with more natural hair styles and / or Afros around Harlem this summer and fall and looking just beautiful. How have you noticed popular hairstyles evolving? Are you a person who does a lot with their hair or just sort of lets it be? Any particular style you wish you could carry off, but just know you can’t?