Hello Eleanor here. I have made a short survey to get some feedback on this thread moving forward. It has a few questions on logistics and some more open ended questions and space for recommendations.

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfzC8Rqylq5wpjoC82Z3UNhwt5igjUP7EMNS8jjhsAmT1fJ7g/viewform?usp=sf_link

I have it set so it will not collect email addresses and it will be anonymous. It will remain open from today till late Sunday (Sept 24) you should be able to edit your responses, and I will organize the results for next week.

Thank you for your time!

This is a safe space: a space for women+ to come together as we are. All of our wants, needs, thoughts, feelings, experiences, losses, successes etc. are welcome. We are here to support each other during trying times and grief, as well as to celebrate each other. If you are a woman+, you belong here. Your contributions are valid and valued: this is the space for us to be ourselves, whatever state it may be that we find ourselves in. It is okay to be angry, happy, sad, disgusted, overjoyed, pensive. It is okay to be in need. We are here to support each other.

Some guidelines to help this space be a positive experience for everyone:

Anyone who identifies as female, was socialized female, AFAB, or otherwise has firsthand experience with the issues being discussed, is welcome to post. If you identify as cis-male, we ask that you please set your participation to “lurk” mode, unless explicitly invited to participate further.

This includes upvotes. We ask cis-men to keep their upvotes to commenters who voluntarily add a “+up” to their comments, and only those comments.

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Don’t feel compelled to share beyond your comfort level. 

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