Greetings, Avocadoans!  It’s time one again for The Avocado’s weekly discussion of LGBTQQIA+ issues!

Rules for this discussion:

• As with the Women+ weekly discussion, we ask that only those who do not identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, queer, asexual, questioning, or any other sexual or gender minority be supportive observers only!  Upvotes are always fine!
• Please put anything graphic behind a < spoiler > tag.  (No porn!)
• As always, any shaming or hateful speech will not be tolerated — if you see some, please flag it ASAP.

Optional discussion topic:  Where is your “safe space”, i.e., the place you feel the most secure in your sexual or gender identity?  If you don’t feel you really have one, where would you like it to be?